The greatest power you have is honoring the light within you. Self Love. I don't mean arrogant and self serving I mean self honoring! There is a gaping difference.
Self honoring love places you at the center of your own consideration first. It places boundaries around you guard against negativity, but with a heart of service, of using your light to lift up others into thier light. Self serving love is not actually love at all, it's roots are fear and it uses manipulation tactics to get what it wants in service to the ego.
There is a sticky spot here where many of us reside, we are NOT self serving, but we have not yet figured out how to be self loving! Lacking the necesary honoring of the light within, we fall prey to the fear mongering of those who are in service to self. We are easily manipulated by guilt, fear and wanting to "be good". Sticking to this desire to be good and do the "right thing" we totally lose sight of our inner light. Because sometime, the "right thing" doesn't look that way to others.
When you are honoring your inner light you are setting boundaries, you are listening to your soul speak, you are hearing your intuition and inner child and honoring you first. Your needs matter. Your life is yours! It is your creation. And what you allow is what will continue. If you let yourself be swayed off your path for every other beings requests you will never get to your own purpose! It's that old saying, put your mask on first otherwise you can not help anyone else.
Say no. Practice saying no to things that don't light you up! If it doesn't resonate deeply... set a boundary, honor youorself and say no. Don't allow yourself to be pulled away from your inner light. In honoring your inner intuition, you will be in service to others in the greatest way! From a place of true love. Self honoring love!
I hope this was helpful. I myself need to hear this one today!
Love you all.
XOXOK
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